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adjective. Exposed to the possibility of being attackedor harmed, either physically or emotionally. Vulnerability— something many of us avoid due to fear of being judged,hurt or failure. To be vulnerable means to put ourselves ina position that could potentially hurt us.
Similarly one may ask, what are some examples of being vulnerable?
In the book Daring Greatly: How the Courage to BeVulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, andLead by Dr Brené Brown, vulnerability is defined as“uncertainty, risk and emotional exposure.”Brené says that “vulnerability is thebirthplace of love, belonging, joy, courage, empathy andcreativity.
- First Thing Is First: Accept That You're Worthy.
- Fight Your Skiddish Tendencies By Knowing What They Are.
- Stop Yourself When You're Resisting.
- Trust That You Can Deal With The Outcome, No Matter What.
- Share Your Hurts With Others.
- By Not Being Vulnerable, You're Giving Away The Power To HurtYou.
In this manner, how can you tell if someone is vulnerable?
Pay attention to these signs if you believe yourself to bevulnerable.
- 1- You fall for anyone.
- 2- You don't open up easily.
- 3- You apologize too much.
- 4- You question if people like you.
- 5- You're extremely moody.
- 6- Your crushes affect you as much as your relationships.
- 7- Your loved ones have control over you.
Following the steps below can help you hone these essentialskills.
- Touch base with yourself. Keep track of how you're feeling,Piorkowski recommends.
- Talk about it. Once you get clear on what you're feeling, bringit up with your partner.
- Get a reality check.
- Ask for what you need.
- Help your partner feel safe.